9 Things That Make Your Sista Valuable Apart from Being Beautiful and Rich
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9 Things That Make Your Sista Valuable Apart from Being Beautiful and Rich
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Hi everyone, Shalom Aleichem!
Good evening GanSist everyone!
In Superwoman Series #110, we discussed that there are more important things than just having a partner. Furthermore, in Superwoman Series #111, we learn that controlling oneself from shopping addiction is one of the biggest victories in the process of becoming a strong woman.
Now, we continue this journey through a discussion that is no less important.
In the midst of the rapid flow of social media, the standard of women’s worth is often narrowed down to two things, namely beauty and wealth. Not a few women feel less confident because they feel that their skin is not smooth white, their body is not thin, their hair is not straight, or because their economic conditions are not yet stable.
In fact, psychology, sociology and health sciences show that a person’s quality of life is much more influenced by attitudes, competence, social relationships, physical health and the meaning of life than appearance or the amount of wealth alone.
Beauty can fade with age. Wealth can also change due to various circumstances. However, the quality of self that is built through learning and good habits will continue to be capital for life.
From Superwoman SeriesThis 112th, Miss Rora invites Sista to see that a woman’s value is not measured by what appears on the outside, but by the qualities that continue to grow within her.
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1. Have a job that suits your passion
Working is not just about earning income. Work is also a means to develop self-competence, provide benefits to others, and obtain inner satisfaction.
Research on psychological well-being shows that someone who feels their work is meaningful tends to have a higher level of life satisfaction than those who work only because of economic demands.
Passion does not mean that work is always fun every day. There will be challenges, stress, and exhaustion. However, when work aligns with interests, abilities and life values, a person usually has a stronger motivation to continue developing.
Women who love their work not only earn income, but also build a healthy identity through their work and contributions.
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2. Have a hobby that makes money
Hobbies are often considered as activities to fill free time. In fact, in the era of the creative economy, many hobbies can develop into additional sources of income.
Writing, singing, making handicrafts, cooking, gardening, photography, graphic design, and creating educational content are examples of hobbies that can provide economic value if pursued seriously.
Apart from providing additional income, hobbies also help maintain mental health. Enjoyed activities can reduce stress, increase creativity, and provide increased competence.
A Superwoman understands that free time is not just something to spend, but can also be an opportunity for continued growth.
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3. Have a mother who always supports Sista
One of the greatest gifts in a woman’s life is having a mother who provides love, support and encouragement to develop.
Mother is the first educator in life. From him, a child learns about empathy, strength, responsibility, and how to face various challenges.
Emotional support from the mother is often an important foundation in building self-confidence and psychological resilience.
Of course, not all women have an ideal relationship with their biological mother. In such conditions, other adult female figures who provide positive role models, such as grandmothers, aunts, teachers or lecturers can also be a valuable source of strength.
Ultimately, women who receive healthy emotional support have a greater opportunity to develop optimally.
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4. Have an IQ above 120
Intellectual ability is an asset that can help a person face various life challenges.
In general, an IQ score above 120 is included in the high category. This ability is often associated with good analytical power, problem-solving abilities, and a learning process that is faster than average.
However, it is important to understand that IQ is not the only measure of success in life. Many studies show that emotional intelligence, resilience, discipline, and the ability to work together also play a huge role.
Therefore, if you have high intellectual abilities, use them as a means to provide benefits to society, not as an excuse to feel superior to other people. Intelligence accompanied by humility will produce wisdom.
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5. Be disciplined in exercising
Exercise is a long-term investment for health. The World Health Organization emphasizes that regular physical activity can reduce the risk of various non-communicable diseases, improve heart health, improve mood, and help maintain brain function.
The most important thing is not the type of exercise, but the consistency. The discipline of getting up early to walk, cycle, swim, do rhythmic gymnastics or do strength training is a form of respect for your own body.
A healthy body provides energy to work, study, worship, and enjoy life with the people closest to you.
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6. Not addicted to shopping
In many previous series, we have discussed how shopping addiction can harm mental health.
Controlling the desire to buy things that are not needed is a form of self-control.
Every time a person is able to differentiate between needs and desires, he is exercising the ability to make decisions rationally.
Women who are not easily tempted by discounts or temporary trends are usually better able to manage their finances, prepare emergency funds, and think about long-term goals.
A person’s worth does not increase because of the number of items they own. On the contrary, the ability to control oneself actually shows true self-worth.
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7. Have constructive friendships
The environment has a huge influence on a person’s development. Good friends are not only present when things are going well, but also dare to provide constructive input when things are not going well.
Healthy social relationships have been shown to be associated with better mental health, lower stress levels, and even longer life expectancy.
Therefore, choose friends who encourage you to become a better person. A positive environment will help maintain enthusiasm for learning, working, worshiping and continuing to develop.
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8. Have a God to worship
In the midst of life’s various challenges, humans need a source of hope that goes beyond themselves. A life of faith provides meaning, direction, and calm when someone faces difficulties.
Various studies show that healthy faith is associated with lower levels of stress, better ability to deal with suffering, and higher psychological well-being.
Worship is not just carrying out religious routines. Worship is also a process of forming personality, practicing gratitude, developing forgiveness, and strengthening hope.
Women who have good faith are usually better able to see life as a whole and do not easily lose direction when faced with failure.
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9. Have high empathy
Empathy is the ability to understand and feel another person’s situation without losing the ability to think rationally. In everyday life, empathy is seen through a willingness to listen, respect other people’s feelings, help without judgment, and treat everyone with respect.
Research shows that empathy plays an important role in building healthy social relationships, effective leadership, and the ability to work together. Women who have high empathy are often a source of comfort for family, friends and co-workers.
However, empathy also needs to be accompanied by healthy boundaries. Helping others does not mean being people pleaser. Superwoman must understand that she can be a caring person while still maintaining her self-esteem.
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CLOSURE
Beauty is indeed pleasing to look at. Wealth can also provide many conveniences in life. However, these two are not the only source of a woman’s value.
True worth is built through meaningful work, the ability to develop potential, healthy family relationships, intelligence used wisely, discipline in maintaining health, self-control over consumer behavior, constructive friendships, a strong spiritual life, and empathy for others. All these qualities cannot be obtained instantly. It takes a learning process, practice, failure, and courage to continue to improve yourself.
This is the main message of Superwoman Series #112. Being a worthy woman doesn’t mean you have to be the most beautiful or the richest. Becoming a valuable woman means continuing to grow into a person who is physically healthy, mentally mature, socially responsible, intelligent in making decisions, and has a spiritual life that provides direction in every step.
When these qualities continue to be developed, a woman’s value no longer depends on the judgment of others. He will remain valuable because of his attitude and contributions, not solely because of his appearance or the wealth he has.
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